Of Men, Boys And Single Mothers
I don't expect this to be my most popular article ever written, but I'll share it anyway. There is an increasing and equally very damaging war occurring in our nation and world right now. The fact is, this particular war has been raging since the days of World War II. No, the Nazi's nor the Imperial Japanese Armies are still active. I am speaking however in regards to the gender war that has been in effect for quite some time now. For those who find themselves completely lost as to what I am referring to here, I am sharing about the war between men and women, “the battle between the sexes.” Much has happened in the early days just around the time of the Second World War between the sexes but sadly, as many of you will probably agree, the greatest casualty in this war as it is in every war, are the children. When it comes to the gender war, a child's viewpoint is sadly the last anyone ever takes time to think about. I hope by the time you completely have read this article, it will have made a profound impact upon your need to to look outside your “self” world-view and you place your heart in right-position with God and His plan for us all, including and especially that of children..
Here in America, there has been a very long and dragged out divide between “the sexes.“ A radical movement for so-called “woman’s rights” that is clearly outside of what the Bible teaches has been engaged in, has been active in every segment and context of American Society for decades. In fact, it is not unusual these days to hear conversations between women on how they “control their men” or how to make false claims of abuse allegations in order to get a divorce with maximum financial benefit and hurting their ex-husband with the most devastating damage to him as possible. On the other side of the coin so to speak, are also men who are very willing to give up their Biblical responsibilities(lazy) so as to cause women to “become equal.” We also see in the USA, many men who simply relinquish their God given responsibilities to teach and interact with their family/children. Many homes in America find men sitting in front of the “boob-tube” watching sports and drinking beer instead of having constructive time with family. These aforementioned variances from God's best and indeed, social experiments, are all ideas far removed from God's plans and probably the largest factors and contributors to the gender war and negative consequences(in children shooting, suicide and other negative behaviours) we see from it in our societies today. So pervasive, engrained in and so devastating(to) are these long held and unbiblical belief systems in our culture, that we have come to accept as a way of escape from our marriage husbands and wives, actually killing one another and or causing suicide to take place http://au.news.yahoo.com/a/20309562/paul-brian-edward-connelly-guilty-of-trying-to-kill-young-sons-in-car-fire/. In fact, regarding murder, it was just days ago that a newlywed wife, just plead guilty for pushing her husband over a cliff to his death ttp://www.cnn.com/2013/12/09/justice/montana-newlywed-death-trial/. For the one and only positive out of this true and recent story of the wife killing her husband, was that the couple had no children and thus, there was (thankfully) no need to go through a hearing within an all to familiar corrupted Family Court system to determine who would get custody of their children.
The word “divorce”, had at one point in our nation and world was considered a very dirty and shameful word. In fact, “until death do us part” was actually meant until natural death, not when one spouse beat the crap out of the other, or hired a hitman to kill their spouse. The very notion and shame of mentioning a divorce in America at least, is long since gone in America. Children have little to no say when parents get a divorce. Couple such ungodly acts of divorce with the sinful issues of acceptance of homosexuals marrying, folks marrying “threesomes”, marrying animals and or even inanimate objects... is it any wonder many children and adult-children days are so confused, screwed up in their thinking and don't know how to act in a relationship ? This is really the major point of the article, many children and adult children here in America and the Industrialized parts of the world have had little to no real and Godly role models in their life. In fact, I can tell you that from the many years of counseling couples and families, it is the current sufferings of the father-daughter and mother-son relationships that are the results of so many plaguing problems in many areas of society today. If the father and or mother is missing and or has little positive interaction with not only their children but also the biological mother/father of their children, their(own)children will be damaged emotionally and most will drift further into chaos, even unto implosion and extinction.
How many of you, your friends, or others you know grew up with a single-mom and with little to no contact with your biological father due to a divorce or break-up ? If you could answer me, you'd probably tell me either “most” or “all.” Growing up in the Industrialized world today without your biological father has become a norm, especially here in America. I know politicians love to point to the “needs of single mothers” to gain votes, but many single-mothers(not all, but most) chose to leave their relationship with the child's father and often, “abuse” was never a factual basis for that separation as many women from Feminist ideologies lay claim(There are real victims of Domestic Violence, both men and women but DV is often used as a claim for a divorce but not proven). The consequence however of growing up without your daddy is as I indicated early on in my article, part of the casualties of the gender war. In fact, the presumption by most of your Government officials is that you, yes...man or woman, you will become married and divorced at least once during your lifetime. There is no doubt that your Government has become so well prepared for you marriage and eventual break-up, that is has passed thousands and thousands of Family Court rules and laws to guide how and what the family will look like when you two(husband and wife) have spent thousands of dollars on attorneys. The Courts you will attend all have ensured that many Government agents and their sponsored agencies can and will control your lives and your children from that point on. As you may already be aware, those “agencies” are highly prioritized over your personal belief systems so as to ensure that they get their piece of the Government tax payer paid financial revenues for their services provided. There is a purposeful Government and many Government sponsored agency's incentive to drive a stake through the heart of your marriage for financial gain. Through the Government courts and services, you quickly learn that your children will be force-indoctrinated and taught that all men are potential rapists or abusers, homosexuality is an accepted lifestyle, religion is bad, the government is good, premarital sex is fine, use a condom, however, if you get pregnant, don't tell your parents, tell the school nurse or a teacher that you can trust so you can get an abortion without informing your parents. Indeed, desire for a divorce puts your children at high risk of death and or dying and you wonder why so many of our children and also adult-children are in the news killing one another either as young children or adult-children.
As I eluded in part in my last paragraph regarding the Government agencies including that of schools to the problem of harming our children, I cannot help but bring up all the Feminist and Liberal garbage that is interlaced and taught throughout many of our public school systems and throughout the USA today. For years, many(not all, but many)school teachers, counselors and their psychiatrists have attempted to emasculate and make boys more like girls their thinking and in their behaviour as well. After failing to diagnose the majority of young school age boys as either with Attention Deficit Disorder or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder so as to make all boys “more docile”, it appears that these Liberal and Feminist demagogues have instead, found their nitch in destroying boys by making it immoral and non politically correct to make hand gestures as guns or that even of bows and arrows http://lastresistance.com/3949/boy-suspended-possession-imaginary-bow-arrow/. It has come to a place in the US, that boys are no longer allowed to be boys in a school's social context. To make matters even more bizarre, Feminists and their Liberal counterparts apparently even suspend boys as young as 6 years old and label them as a “sexual predator” when they kiss a little girls hand in school as well http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/video/boy-suspended-kissing-girl-hand-21174282. Our schools have become breeding grounds for stupid ideas, leaving the core context of what God has ordained as “right” and “good” as something less than desirable. In fact the vast majority of our schools here in the US teach our kids to hate God, hate Jesus Christ as well as ignore the Bible's positive messages...and folks wonder why we have all these school shootings ? http://www.cnn.com/2013/12/13/us/colorado-school-shooting/.
Ah, the good ol' days, I miss them, when folks revered Godly principles as well as when boys were boys, girls were girls men were men and women, were women. Those days along with accepting God's providence in our lives are long gone I guess. No one knows how to act anymore, that's for sure. The talking heads on the CNN and the “Catholic Lawyer Channel”(Fox News Channel) keep telling us the “family is broken” while they at the same time, have all those wacko psychologists, so called “journalists”, and others on-air as guests who keep giving us their version of the need for more social experiments as the answer to the broken family dilemma, but we all know that crap doesn't work. Every day, and increasingly so, folks just walk around in chaos and confusion as the families and the world disintegrate and rapidly deteriorate all around them. So many folks today are so blinded by their own hands of wrong doing, they refuse to see the mess they made out of all our children, grandchildren and families. Sadly, they won't look at all that is occurring to them and their children/family is all a result of their own bloody choices in ignoring what God instructs all of us, including that of families, men,women and children alike http://www.foxnews.com/us/2013/12/13/video-prompts-georgia-to-investigate-brawl-in-baby-room-daycare/?intcmp=latestnews.
The world is very sick, twisted, dark and evil. Few living in this world know who God of the Bible is any longer. False and fake christ's and religions rule and reign in ever town and with all of it, more and more willingly lap up all the sick behaviour like a dog to it's vomit. God never designed men and women to go to war against one another. Equally, He did not devise the mess that men and women have made with the way relationships go on most of the time here. No, He intended men and women to get along and made each gender to help support the other. In Marriages(despite the lies that Liberals, Governments, Feminists and Machoists tell you), men have the great responsibility to not only love but take care of and protect their family. Wives, are designed to care for and love their husband and children. Children, were designed primarily to have two parents who are united in flesh and spirit for life. Feminists, lazy men and Liberals don't like those Godly principles. The devil cannot be blamed for most or even in part of this gender war including that of the gross issues of single mothers, broken families and Government's destroying families. Nope, it is the hearts of those who drift from God's perfect plan for all that have directly contributed to the destruction you see all about you, including what horrible things that have happened to our kids.
You have a choice. You've always had that choice. You can quit the “gender war”, quit blaming your “ex”, your family, your friends or others and get back on God's track, that is if you want to rescue your children and grandchildren and what's left of this nation and world. If you are not interested in changing for the better as I have indicated(Biblical God's way only), if you really don't care, you wish to stay self-centered and are apathetic and just don't give a crap--- then, stay the course, but remember this... there are always consequences for your choices, now and forever.
Rev. Paul P. Waldmiller~Black Robe Regiment Pastor