“ The Horrors Of Domestic Violence And the D.V. Industry "
In case you were not aware, October in
the United States is designated as “National Domestic Violence
Awareness Month.” Throughout the month, there are various meetings,
protests, government sponsored and payed for events alerting all
Americans and even those around the world to the horrible crime of
domestic violence/abuse. It saddens me that these events are not
attended by Many Biblical Pastors throughout this once great nation.
In fact, deeply saddened am I, that so many Biblical Christians and
their pastors really on the most part avoid speaking in public and
intervening in their rightful role of identifying, coming against
through corrective action and removing such a wicked matter as acts
of Domestic violence. I probably shouldn't be so surprised really as
many of the responsibilities of the Biblical church have been quite
willingly turned over to the “world” and governments but I must
share anyway, for there are still those who need to know and there is
no better way to share truth and what is right, then through Biblical
truth.
I am not at all sure how much time in
actuality we the true Church of Jesus Christ have left on this Earth,
we are after all, in the “end days” and as well, just a remnant
of what most call themselves and identify themselves as “Christians.”
Recognizing the shortness of time, I still do however wish to take
that time in identifying and placing the exact Biblical
responsibilities of what the “Church” should be involved in
regarding the horrible crime of domestic violence. There are of
course matters we should all consider when speaking and sharing here
about domestic violence and abuse whether Christian or not and I want
to make sure though that those who will dare to call themselves by
the name of Christ in any form, will come to know their full
responsibility and truth regarding what and whom is involved in such
a heinous matter and how to deal with those who perpetrate such
criminal acts and equally as important...to identify and contend with
rightfully those who would take advantage of such criminal acts. So,
please continue in reading below...
Let us start here with a simple
definition and understanding of what the term; “domestic violence”
means shall we ? Now, I know much of the world will right away
disagree with me, but remember, the explanation is in Biblical terms
and not of the world. So here goes, “Domestic Violence is an evil
act where by any person or group of persons physically or verbally
attacking an intimate partner or family member. It is an unchrist
like act that is of a selfish, manipulative and evil behavior to gain
something whether it be loyalty, something physical, emotional
spiritual or other.” That is the very bottom line of what the act
of domestic violence is. Let me please explain further; by it's very
nature, Domestic Violence/abuse is a very unbiblical and unchrist
like act. There is absolutely no excuse for Domestic Violence...and
let me say right here as well, I am not speaking of the act of
protecting one's self from being attacked, that is something entirely
different. What I am speaking of is; any person who (acts out/lashes
out some may say) either physically or verbally purely out of a
self-centered and manipulative fashion to gain something,
ie..”control.”
Now, if you are agreeable with me in my
terminology and explanations of what encompasses in regards to the
act of domestic violence...good, if not well, perhaps you can keep
reading on here.... The world may or may not agree with what the
Bible describes especially husbands/wives and brothers and sisters in
Christ are to do with one another(Ephesians 4, Malachi 2:2,
Colossians 3, John 13;34-35, etc..) but the bottom line is as
husbands, wives, children and with one another, if we dare to call
our selves “Christians” or “good people” our motivator and
example should be out of love and not selfish gain or anything based
on a lie correct ?(please know that Biblical love is not of “jesus
butterflys”) Well, unfortunately the sad reality for the “Church”
it appears, that divorces, accusations of domestic abuse/violence and
abortion(an ultimate act of domestic violence as far as I am
concerned) are basically at the same rate in the so called “Church”
as it is in the world(non-believers). How can this be ? Are not
Christians commanded by Jesus to be the “light and salt of the
world” you may ask ?
The Church has failed on the most part
in helping those who suffer from matters such as domestic violence
because many have gone off following “other gospels”and
“doctrines of demons.” These days too, many pastors do nothing
more than refer their female congregants to the police or their local
“domestic violence programs” when there is an accusation of
domestic abuse. It is much worse for men who suffer at the hands of
domestic violence, for the world pretty much has written men off as
the primary aggressor in the vast majority of cases and even if they
are true victims, men are still blamed and found at fault for
domestic violent acts against them anyway. Sadly, the “Church”
also has believed many if not all of the lies about domestic violence
as well, even the lies that the church has no place in intervening.
Pastors more often than are telling men to “suck it up” and also
blame the men for the beating they took from their female
partner/spouse. Likewise, often times female victims of D.V. are
simply sent by pastors or pastor's wives to “shelters” where the
women are indoctrinated with unbiblical and very evil feminist
doctrines of man hating and of acceptance of matters of witchcraft
and in when there are women who are not true victims but simply
looking for a reason to escape their marriage through divorce, often
times, almost all women are taught in these D.V. Programs and
shelters how to manipulate and lie to courts so that they may gain
control and custody of children, homes and property. The sad fact is;
many of these so called domestic violence programs receive most of
their funding via tax dollars(the evil culprit once again of title IV
federal Funding arises) and are paid per “each victim serviced.”
There is a built in mechanism without any accountability what-so-ever
for such programs these “programs” often “pad their numbers,
lie, cheat and steal our tax money to propagate false reporting of
domestic violence. I know some female victims of domestic violence
and feminists are already going batty here, screaming for help from
Diana but use all the information I am giving is true, but the
reality here is, that the vast majority of domestic violence programs are
not interested in helping real victims of domestic violence, do not
help true victims of domestic violence, but they only feed off them like
vultures and throw these poor women away when they are done using
them up. The vast majority of the Domestic Violence Industry is
interested only in seeing all men in our society emasculated,
feminist ideologies propagated further, and more cold-hard cash
gained to purport their lies and their unbiblical agenda.
I hope you see and understand now that
the world with many of it's domestic violence programs actually
diminish and hurt the cause of women, and the real victims of domestic
violence/abuse and the cause of Christ. I myself as a therapist can
attest to an have heard with my own ears some of my own female
clients confide in me the names of several local domestic violence
programs and attorneys that were teaching them how to fraudulently
claim domestic violence claims (with police and in courts) against
their male significant others so that as I shared earlier, they may
gain, custody and control of children, homes and property through
fraudulent gain. What I am describing here with you are certainly
acts not done by true Christians, but what is equally concerning is
that there are pastors and so called “Christians” who decidedly, knowingly aware of such horrendous and evil practices by many
domestic violence programs, cops, courts, etc... and still anyway; I
once again reiterate, referring any women to such worldly programs,
are doing true victims of domestic violence a great harm and
disservice to them. For those who may be in more information about
the true agenda of many of the world's domestic violence programs,
you certainly don't need to take my word for it, pick up and read
your Bible and I would highly suggest you get or purchase this book
entitled; “When She Was Bad...Violent Women And the Myth Of
Innocence” written
by Patricia Pearson who herself, is a feminist... a warning to all
the who purchase the book, there is much use of profanity and other
adult content and language in the book including speaking about
homosexuality and description of gross crime scenes...
http://www.amazon.com/When-She-Was-Bad-Innocence/dp/0140243887
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The bottom line here for the “Church”,
is that it as a body, has a real and Biblical mandate to protect
those who suffer at the hands of tyrants, aggressors and oppressors
such as domestic violence. I do not have room here in this particular
article to provide all the Bible verses containing about God's
commands in reference to justice, mercy, widows, orphans, etc... but
it is high time the Church takes back from the world what was
previously and so sadly-willfully surrendered in it's mandate to
protect/help all victims of evil and in doing and what is right
before the Lord. There are currently religious people such as that of
the social gospel, the Circumcision Group and other cults doing the
work but not sewing of the Bible or of following Jesus Christ. Others
not belonging to Jesus Christ are doing the work that belongs solely
to God's people and this should not be. We true believers in Christ
Jesus should take into our arms every victim of such terroristic acts
as domestic violence and keep those true victims from harm and
influence--- for those who would slither their lies to manipulate
such an evil agenda as Communism, Socialism and Feminism all have
their own evil and perverse agenda. Christ said He is the Way, the
Truth and the Life... our moral and Biblical obligation is in more
than proclaiming Biblical truth, it is also in our actions and in
exposing what is evil and in protecting women, men and children from
the wicked world which will destroy them for a sick , and in the the
end, only use up victims like those of domestic violence and toss
them to the side as the devil always does.
So my question especially to Christian
pastors and Christian men is; O men of God, are you willing to
protect the women, the children and other men who need defense
against the enemies of this world ? Not only to proclaim all the
Biblical truth, but in action, in manner of biblical love... no
matter how fierce your enemy and the resistance of the devil's
minions may attack you, you will help those who suffer and need your
protection ?
Pastor Paul Waldmiller~Black Robe
Regiment Pastor
Thank you ... there are a couple of Christian oriented or based organizations I have come across. I filed an application with the state DV agency for funds to get my car fixed ... husband now on his 3rd divorce rampage and money is tight ... did not want to lose my job ... they came back and said "no". I wrote a couple times, asking where I could obtain legal information because I am tired of being bullied and short-changed; they (state DV agency) just ignore me.
ReplyDeleteI'm also tired of being told, after nearly 50 years of DV work, that my "only" options are to run away and leave behind everything I worked for, and my children as well. Lately, I've been seeing that I have been empowered because I am learning to do a lot of car repairs, by necessity. I'll probably still lose my job, as the car breaks down and has screwed up my work so much lately. But shame, shame, always these agencies want money and recognition but there is nothing new to offer and no empowerment.
I've also dealt with churches around here. It's been my understanding that if I have a problem, I should take it to the person it's with, then through the channels even to the church leadership. But the "leadership" doesn't believe in that part of the Bible. Nor do they believe in checking to make sure you and your children are doing okay, since husband ran off with someone else's wife and living next door with his mother ... always been a real pleasure to see the other woman spending the day at my mother-in-law's, where adultery is just considered another form of "friendship" and where her little boy can continue his rampage with her funds, as he would not be able to do on his own.
Sadly, I have (apparently)more courage than these so-called leaders as I spoke with everyone involved, civilly and Biblically while they just tell me they will "pray" for me. Sadly, their main answer to me ... I should "go away" ... or in past, one "leader" helped snatch my children then helped throw me into a hospital b/c I was supposedly going to kill him. Sure, and three big guys against one female and having removed the phones from the house ahead of my arrival ... the main childnapper's vehicle nowhere on the premises. Personally, I don't see many true churches around. And the DV agencies, they just substitute their control for that of a bully spouse. As long as you "follow the script" and make no waves (have needs of your own), you are welcome (just like some "marriages").
One final comment ... adultery, divorce, all kinds of things indicate spiritual sickness or suicide. Yet the church bulletin is not "allowed" to carry news about spiritual illnesses that might end in eternal separation from God. Why? Makes no sense to keep those needs hush hush but physical illnesses can be blazoned in the bulletin and anywhere else ... and is likely to lead to visits, phone calls, prayers ... I sit alone and hope things don't fall apart ... hope that I understand what God would have me do ... it's a very hard road when you come to the realization that your spouse might be the walking dead and spewing evil and hurt on you ... and nobody seems to know and nobody seems to care.
One reason I fight against islam.
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